It’s repotting season and if you love plants then you’ve probably already walked into a plant shop to buy new pots only to wind up leaving with more plants and pots than you anticipated (I regret nothing.) But where to put them all? …

For weeks I posted to my Instagram stories about the genuinely disturbing amount of anti-trans legislation thats been sweeping the country. As a concerning result, my engagement dropped by more than 96%, and my account reach dropped by 83%. — What does this mean and why is it important? Put simply, reach is how many people see your post in their News Feed. Engagement is how many people interact with it. Both reach and engagement go down when you’re an out trans and/or non-binary person on Instagram. …

Me and my spouse adopted a mixed breed rescue named Summer seven months ago. Although our adorable 60% retriever mutt recently turned one year old she’s gonna be in the “puppy” phase for at least another year, so being active and engaged is wildly important for her mental health. …

“Let’s sit with that feeling of anger for a moment. Can we do that?” My therapist is annoyingly good at seeing things when I can’t see them, noticing things that are bubbling to the surface. I hate this skill he has; hate that he can see parts of me I…

This week I put up a poll on my IG stories asking people for podcast recommendations. I can’t stand true crime podcasts. Too triggering, too messy, do not like. But I need something to listen to while I’m cleaning the house, making dinner, or working on my side business. I…

TL;DR: ★★★★★, 14/10 would recommend, comedy science podcast. This week I put up a poll on my IG stories asking people for podcast recommendations. I got a lot of recommendations. So it was a pleasant surprise that my first listen whipped me back in time and stirred up fond memories…

“You can pick whatever music you like. I’ll make you some tea” said Steve as he shuffled into the kitchen. The north facing wall in Steve’s living room was covered floor to ceiling in bookcases full of CD’s. There was even a step stool to reach the ones at the…

When you’re queer, you spend your entire life made to feel like you are absolutely batshit insane at every turn of your development. Literally everything you enjoy, like, dislike, or are curious about is scrutinized under the cactus needle of cis-heteronormativity. I say cactus needle because it’s not something that…

I just watched the first episode of Loki, and Disney’s penchant for villianizing queer people aside, the show might actually be good, unless Wandavision was genuinely the only engaging series we’re gonna get out of Disney Plus. …